For the last couple years I have fallen into the habit of texting and keeping up with friends on Facebook instead of in person or by phone. It is very convenient and easy to fit in with other tasks. The problem is that even though I have been in touch I still feel like I have been falling out of touch a little. Quick texting conversations have their place. To confirm appointments, send a quick thought or joke, or let someone know you are thinking about them. Something is lost, however, when you replace face to face and phone conversations with texting and social media rather than using it as a supplement or aid.
So I made a vow to myself that I would reach out more to the people in my life. What are we here for, what are we living for, if we shun human contact for brief contact through distant computers that can never quite convey the feeling and warmth you can gain from the sound of a voice or a single look.
So far I have reconnected with an old friend both in person and on the phone. Several times when I have thought of texting someone to say hi I have called them instead, and I feel more alive and happy for it. That isn't to say that I will no longer text, email, or Facebook, not to mention blogging, but I will make an effort to find more balance. I also hope to use those tools to connect more with those that are far from me. There are so many ways to keep in touch with those I love, so I hope to embrace it all and fill my life with love, laughter, friends, and family.
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